Please Yourself Jan. 27, 2012, 4:50 p.m.

Set yourself free from the taboo of touching yourself and have a little menage a moi. That’s right, what better way to enjoy sensational sex then to start with loving yourself a little bit more. No longer do we, or should we, believe that masturbating is forbidden and will cause us to go blind. For many men, masturbation will be something you started as a horny teenager, keeping the act hidden and shuffling under the duvet in private. As a fully grown man, it shouldn’t be something that you enjoy doing, because it brings you pleasure. The truth is, you can have sex with yourself whenever you want.

You shouldn’t just use it as a pawn when you can’t get the sex you want. Learning to respect and get to know your own body is essential to understanding your likes and dislikes. Although most men will admit to putting their hands down their pants, it is generally down to boredom and loneliness. The connection, for some reason, has been lost as to what you can learn from having a fiddle. Self exploration and pleasure will help release tension, teach you more about yourself and open you up to endless opportunities when you share your next sexual experience with a partner.

It is unfortunately different for women, with less than 50% admitting to pleasuring themselves. Playful escorts realise that there is stigma for women more than men and that really it should be eradicated completely. Women, just as much as men should be willing and keen to explore their own bodies for want to learn about their pleasure levels and zones. An understanding of your own body will lead to a better understanding when you and a partner share intimate moments. Don’t you think it is time to shout ‘we love masturbation’ from the rooftops and revel in the glory of some self-loving? London escorts certainly do! If you ever needed a reason to love it so much, then here are a few.

Masturbation can improve your skin tone, help you fall asleep (great for those with insomnia) increase your desire for more orgasms. Fella’s, you can also learn a trick or two. Playing with your tackle can help you understand a bit more about your pleasure levels. You can learn to control and delay your responsiveness to touch and how quickly or slowly your pleasure is heightened before orgasm. Plus, if you keep that stuff stored up, it can be harmful. Your sex organs produce and accumulates a large amount of semen. You body responds to the build up of semen, making you want to ejaculate in order to make room for more. Masturbation is important to complete the cycle of the production of semen.

So, guys, if you are limiting yourself to a sporadic shuffle when the missus is away or on a lonely afternoon, carry on. Just don’t limit yourself to self exploration when you think there is nothing better coming along. There is also the greatest thing available to get you going, your hand (or a sex toy), so why shy away from a stimulating sex session with yourself? Masturbation is completely safe, enjoyable and a great way to practise your pleasure techniques. Go on, indulge yourself.