Your idea of a perfect date is probably quite different to a woman’s idea of one. Imagine a drop dead gorgeous girl who meets you in the pub, brings you a nice cold beer while you watch the football, then after the game suggests you go back to her place for ‘coffee’. It’s a fantasy for many, but unlikely to ever happen unless you’ve requested this scenario with one of our London escorts!
Most women today want to be romanced. It’s becoming less and less common to find chivalrous men, so a few gentlemanly manners will get you a long way. If you come to a compromise on some things, you’re sure to be rewarded in other ways…
First of all, arrange to collect your date from her house and arrive on time. Chances are she won’t yet be ready, but it tells her straight away that you’re reliable and eager to see her. If you really live at opposite sides of London, she may be happy to meet you at an agreed venue; in this situation, you definitely shouldn’t be late – if she’s left alone for too long, another Casanova might take advantage and win her over!
Find something to do that you’ll both enjoy. Dinner at a restaurant is a classic choice, but discuss which types of cuisine you like first so you don’t make a mistake in choosing the place. You might have a mutual hobby that you could share on your date, such as music or theatre. Even something more adventurous like rock climbing could be fun if it’s something you both already enjoy! Talk on the phone a few days prior to your date so you know you’ve chosen a good location. The setting is very important when it comes to wooing her.
You’ll both want to make a good impression on each other, so make an effort when you’re getting ready. It’s best to assume that you’re going to get lucky, but not to presume. That way you’ll be prepared if anything does happen; shower, smell good, dress well and carry protection. Wait for her to make the first move otherwise she’ll think you’re only after one thing, and don’t let her get too drunk otherwise you’d be taking advantage. But you never know, she might be just as keen as you to get physical!
There’s no magic formula for the perfect date. It’s mostly about the chemistry between you and the other person; if you have that spark, you could have a whale of a time on a bench, but if not you could have a boring time at the Ritz. The only way to find out is by going!