Women are very complicated creatures. It can be difficult to understand them sometimes, and just when you think everything’s going well it can suddenly turn around! There are a few things you can do to keep things running smoothly; before you know it she will be putty in your hands.
The first step is how to approach her. The mistake that many guys make is to show off in front of their friends, making themselves look like the big man. This rarely ever impresses a woman; the worst thing you can possibly do is make the joke at her expense. Instead, go for a more subtle approach. If humour is your forte, use it to your advantage; approach her without your friends and make a quiet inoffensive joke that you can share together.
If you’ve never been the class clown, the best way to approach her is by first catching her eye and smiling; if she reciprocates, you’ve got the green light to go over. A good way to start the conversation is by paying her a compliment, but try not to focus on her body otherwise she’ll think that all you want is sex. Even if that’s true, don’t let it on! She won’t give you a chance if she suspects that. Instead, compliment something safe like her hair, clothes or something about her personality. Avoid clichés, and don’t repeat any lines from romantic films, chances are she will have already seen it.
If you’ve already passed this stage and you’re going on your first date, the first way you will get her attention is by the way you dress. Dress smartly but in something you feel comfortable in – don’t wear something loud if you have a shy personality. Don’t be embarrassed to ask advice from a woman or a friend on what you should wear, many men have no interest in clothes and wouldn’t have the first idea what looks good on them! There are certain colours, cuts and fabrics that will flatter your figure, and a woman will notice these things.
If you’ve had your eye on a certain girl for some time but she just never seems to notice you, it may be time to pull out the oldest trick in the book: make her jealous. You need her to see you with a stunningly beautiful woman so that she will begin to wonder what qualities drew her to you. Simply hire a gorgeous London escort and take her out with you, and she will hang on your every word. If this doesn’t get your dream girl’s attention, we don’t know what will!