Most of us have fantasies, whether it's being the spectator or actually being involved, sexual fantasies can often play part of a healthy sex life. Although men and women seem to have slightly different sexual needs, it does not come as a surprise that the things we fantasize about can be quite similar. The scenarios can sometimes be a fetish of certain things that are our of our imagination, but most of the time they are realistic scenes that we would like to do with our partners.
Carla, a 27 year old girl who has worked at a top London Escort agency for the past four years confided: 'My job involved spending a lot of time with men and women, and in this industry most people are very open about what they want. I have learnt from experience in the past few years that women are becoming more and more liberated and open with their desire, and I am glad to see the changes.'
Another girl Zofia, a gorgeous Eastern European girl who moved to London two years ago to work at as a top class escort, then later on left to open her own sex shop had discovered: 'I worked for many Escort agencies in London and built up a large clientele before I left to open up my own sex shop. Now these men and women visit my shop daily and the toys or enhancement they buy are actually quite similar. Both men and women fantasise dominating or being dominated in sex, so the leather whips and handcuffs are one of the top sellers. Role playing is also another popular fantasy. Costumes such as teacher/student, nurse/doctor, plumber/housewife, policeman/policewoman, are all obvious choices.'
Threesome is another common fantasy. Although for men it usually involves two women, for women it can be with another woman or another man. Some women like the idea of doing it with another woman, whether or not they actually practise it, the idea of having another girl going down on you and knowing that she understands how to please you is quite a turn on. When women fantasise doing it with two men, the scenario usually involves two gorgeous looking heterosexual guys whose only interests are to please the girl. Or another common scene is one guy will have intercourse with the woman while she gives oral sex to the other man.
Whatever your fantasy is, as long as it's harmless and you practise safe sex, it is all part of the fun to a healthy sex life.
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