The hustle and bustle of the city is a huge factor in any Londoner’s life. The morning rush hour, the busy day and the evening rush hour. Rush, busy, rush; these are not words that promote the idea of relaxation, peacefulness and tranquility. The early mornings, late nights and days where you rarely have time to stop for a cup of coffee can take its toll. In today’s current climate, where the news is always bad and the outlook often bleak, it is important that we take care of ourselves, allowing us treats that will really benefit us. Whilst going out on the lash with the lads may seem a good idea, you spend copious amounts on alcohol, only to wake up the next morning with the sensation that your head may explode. Couple this with the feeling of constant nausea and over heating and you’ve got yourself a grade a hangover, my friend. It almost seems like you’re spending the money to make you seem even worse. Letting the stress and tension of daily life fade away like footsteps in the sand as you become less tense, releasing all the anxiety of working in the city. This doesn’t happen naturally. The idea of laying down, having someone run their hands, covered in oil, all over you, is the stuff dreams are made of. It is the perfect relaxing moment for any man and we cannot recommend indulging in a relaxing massage more.

Like anything in life, preparation is key, and unless good and solid foundations are set, it can be next to impossible to achieve maximum pleasure. The perfect massage may seem unattainable, but we like to think we can get you pretty close. It’s all in the details. Firstly, like any encounter where bodies become declothed, setting the mood is crucial. You wouldn’t have a business meeting in a child’s playground, with toddlers running about. So why have a relaxing massage in an environment that doesn’t promote the relaxation and chilled-out atmosphere you need from it? Lighting some candles and playing some sensual music is in no way cheesy; it’s a tried and tested technique that goes hand in hand with an relaxing massage experience. It creates an ambience that is crucial to allowing your body to sink into the table, letting your masseuse free on your body.

The blending of oils is important, you don’t want to be mixing too many into the equation. A popular flavouring is jojoba oil, as well as grapeseed oil. Both are beautifully smelling, smooth to the touch and effective for gliding hands. There’s nothing worse than hands that stutter clumsily across the body. The combination of soft lighting, soft music and aromatherapy oils that make you feel as relaxed as the most relaxed man on earth. The experience can also be highly stimulating and sensual. If you get it late on a Sunday, it can really set you up for the week ahead. Check back next week for our next instalment; Getting To Grips With Massage.