Low Libido Worries Jan. 20, 2012, 4:11 p.m.

A low libido is linked to good health and longevity, or so it has been reported. Those in a monogamous relationship but are not sexually active are considered to be unfortunate. Low libido in relationships are surprising common with men as well a women. If within your everyday life together, sex is just forgotten about then you’re are not partaking in adult play. A relationship without adult play, exists just as friendship and companionship. These are not the direct views of Chic and the London escorts, but of an American sex therapist. However, there is some truth in her notions. A healthy and fully active sex life can provide you with a well rounded lifestyle whereas a low libido can indicate that there is something else wrong in your life. Being sexually active in a monogamous relationship will provide you with all-around glow of happiness and health. This is because the endorphins that are released are known as ‘happy endorphins’ filling you with a more glorious feelings. The problem for those with a decreasing libido in a substantial relationship is that, in all seriousness, it could be linked to your health and well-being.

You should be able to differentiate between whether your relationship is suffering because of your lack of interest with your partner or for other matters entirely. If your feelings towards your partner have not changed and you still find her to be physically attractive then the problem could be health related. When the mind is feeling a bit low and you are downhearted, then your whole life will be affected by it. This will seep into your everyday, work, relationships and sex life. This is very common place with men who are suffering with a patch of melancholic feelings and apathy. Without wanting to release their feelings and discuss their issues, they internalise their problems causing it to seep out in other parts of their lives. Sex is your early warning sign that there is something wrong. Not only can it be connected to depression, but studies have shown that it has been linked to Type 2 diabetes and can be an expression of heart disease, prostate problems and hormonal issues. If you notice this in yourself, then to be on the safe side, visit your doctor for a consultation.

However, if it is not you that is detracting from sex and it is your wife or girlfriend, then listen up. For some women, sex can be low down on the scale of important things to do. It is estimated that about a quarter of women are not interested in sex and another quarter prefer to participate in the act just once of twice a month. The next quarter would prefer sexual activity once or twice a week, with a smaller percentage liking it more regularly and nearly every day. Although women and men for that matter, are made up very differently and their libido’s vary from person to person. Some women may have a high sex drive or libido and will therefore be keen to be more sexually active, whereas others are not so keen on the act. Some women can consider it to be more hard work rather than an enjoyable activity to do together.

There are a number of benefactors that can lead to a low libido. However, mature escorts agree, if the underlying problem is that your relationship has gone sour then it is time to rejuvenate it. Why not schedule a flirty date with your partner? Get ready in separate locations, maybe hire a hotel in Central London for one of you to stay in. Dress up and look your best, think of it as if you are going on a first date. The adrenaline and butterflies should kick in as you pamper and preen yourself, in order for you to look your very best for not only your partner, but yourself too. Then, when you arrive at your arranged location you should be feeling excited about seeing one another. The longer you spend apart before the date, the more you will enjoy seeing one another. The chemical endorphins that will hopefully be released from your excitement will increase your happiness levels. For those of you that don’t know, happiness levels lead to a increased libido. This could lead to the two of you ending the night with a trip back to the hotel. Start out slow with an erotic massage, the intimacy will hopefully help increase your excitement and sex drive. Hopefully this will lead to a happy ending for the two of you. To keep things from going stale between the two of you, try and spice things up every now and then. It is important part of existing in a happy and healthy relationship. But, remember! If you feel as though there are other things getting in the way of your sex life, that perhaps is normally pretty active, then please address it with your GP.