Picture this. You’re on a date with a beautiful woman. The wine is flowing, so is the conversation. Your eyes keep darting all over her body; starting at her flowing mocha coloured hair, to the soft, perfumed nape of her neck, slowly taking in her pert, rounded bosom. Spending a little too long in that area, you glance your eyes in the direction of her small waist but revel in the sight of her curvy hips. You run your eyes down her long legs, paying particular attention to her thighs, till you reach her little painted toes enveloped in her black heeled sandals. The vision before you is overwhelming and a surge of passion courses through you. In a state of automatic action, you wriggle forward in your chair, making yourself a little more comfortable. You’re mind whirring with possibilities you attempt to make the first move. A little sudden and hasty, your actions are coming across clumsy and your intentions of subtlety are all too lost.
If you really want to get a hot and heavy with a woman then you need to know how not to scare her off. Escort girls are not keen on a dating men that are a little too forceful. With a media saturated with sexually confident and promiscuous women, it is hard for men to distinguish what is acceptable attitudes towards propositioning a woman. There are probably women out there that are just as keen to jump in to bed with a man immediately as you are with her, but there are still women that prefer there men to be a bit more gentlemanly. Chivalry will get you everywhere; or is a good place to start at least. Being too forward could result in blowing your chances all together.
Judging what kind of girl you’re on a date with can help. If your lady is a demure, sophisticated type, then the likelihood of her enjoying you list all her greatest assets is low. Imagining reeling off all the filthy things you’d like to do to her? Some women may get off on that, but others may be repulsed and are likely to treat you to a slap across the face. Dirty talk is something that should be introduced later on in a relationship, or even once an understanding is met. Some women may love to know what you want to do to them, but steer clear until you know where you both stand. Leave the smuttiness for a beer with the boys.
Keep your hands on your lap (by which I mean to yourself). The occasional arm touch or perhaps the palm on the small of her back when escorting her through open doors is acceptable, gentlemanly behaviour. Our escort girls love it when men open doors for them, they believe that men who do are very courteous and polite.
Wait for her little advances, subtleties in body language; like mirrored movements, or complete eye contact or even subtle touches from her. An escort girl will be a master at these subtleties. This will indicate her interest. If she is shy, and it is apparent you need to be the one to make the first move, then make sure she is comfortable. Hopefully, chemistry and reciprocal passion will result in nature taking its course for both of you, but it is essential to bear in mind that some women aren’t as forward as others.
If she is pulling away and distancing herself from you then this is an obvious sign which you need to notice. Don’t insist on trying your luck. Respect her decision and back away. Respect is key. Our London Escorts at Chic love a gentleman. A man who knows how to treat a lady and understands her need to feel comfortable, is more likely to get lucky than a man that is a little too pushy. Let a woman do what she wants to do, when she feels ready and you’ll be guaranteed to be rewarded for it.